SynchroDestiny by Deepak Chopra
Wow!! Posting a blog using MS word 2007 for the very first time. It finally brings me back to blogging. Though I have been reading quite a lot these days but it’s still a different picture when it comes to blogging. Anyway, better late than never.
Just finished reading SynchroDestiny by Deepak Chopra with the tag line “Would you recognize a miracle if you see one?” To be very frank I am not exactly a big fan of self help books and Deepak Chopra is no exception. But I was pleasantly surprised after I started reading the book.
The book is about coincidences and how they shape out life. As per the book, coincidences are always meaningful and are a way by which the nature keeps in touch with you. To start the book he has taken the example of quantum mechanics and has correlated it beautifully. This is the simplest way in which you can learn what quantum mechanics is all about. All the famous scientists who were involved with quantum mechanics were also great thinkers. There are also some examples about synchronicity in nature. Like all the birds returning to home taking a turn at the same moment; People who are able to feel the distress of their closed ones even when they are far-far away. The author also gives several examples from his life in which he noticed some coincidences and how they changed and shaped in life.
SynchroDestiny is an interesting read in the first half. The example drawn are simple and yet fascinating. You somehow start realizing that so many things happen around you for which you have no explanation and yet we don’t notice or question it at all. In the second half the author has tried giving up a formula by which you can tune your senses to recognize such coincidences. He claims that by doing this you will be able to achieve everything that you desire. This is where I started losing interest in the book. He has given seven principles for achieving it which are nothing but few Sanskrit sentences. As soon as you reach this junction the book is dull boring and makes you feel sleepy. But if you still continue to read it by defeating the desire of sleeping, you will be left irritated thinking why did you waste your time. Books like “You Can Win” and “7 habits of highly successful people” are grossly appealing in comparison to this. But if you like these book in the first place then you will be able to come out alive reading it.
The only interesting part in the whole book was one exercise which I will mention here:
“Find two people you like the most and two whom you abhor. Write down 10 good qualities for the person you like as soon as you can without thinking. Similarly, write down 10 bad qualities about the person you hate. Now write down the three qualities that you hate about the 1 st person and vice versa for 2nd. Read over each quality and and circle each quality that you think you have in yourself. Put a checkmark in front of those which are completely inapplicable to you. Finally identify the top three qualities from the circled and checkmark list.
Read all the six qualities as these are the qualities which are present in you whether you accept it or not. Your life will attract people who have thease qualities – the extremely positive ones because you may not feel that you deserve them and the extremely negative ones because you refuse to acknowledge their presence in your life.”